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I loved you from the very start, You stole my breath, embraced my heart. Our life together has just begun, You're part of me my little one. As mother with child, each day I grew, My mind was filled with thoughts of you.
I'd daydream of the things we'd share, Like late-night bottles and teddy bears. Like first steps and skinned knees, Like bedtime stories and ABC's. I thought of things you'd want to know, Like how birds fly and flowers grow.
I thought of lessons I'd need to share, Like standing tall and playing fair. When I first saw your precious face, I prayed your life be touched with grace. I thanked the angels from above, And promised you unending love.
Each night I lay you down to sleep, I gently kiss your head and cheek. I count your little fingers and toes, I memorize you eyes and nose. I linger at your nursery door, Awed each day I love you more. Through misty eyes, I dim the light, I whisper "I Love You" every night. I loved you from the very start, You stole my breath, embraced my heart. As mother and child our journey's begun, My heart's yours forever little one.
Randee Moutard <FifeMs@hotmail.com>
Anderson, CA USA - Wednesday, June 30, 2004 at 22:53:28
ED AND CYDNEY: JUST SAYING HI!!!!! AND HOPE YOU TWO ARE DOING WELL.IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO PLEASE LET ME KNOW ANYTIME......"TAKE CARE"........."NAPA-NICK"..(ABC-GOOD MORNING AMERICA).....
Napa-Nick <napanic25@aol.com>
napa, ca USA - Wednesday, June 30, 2004 at 20:26:53
Hello..........I have stopped by to wish everyone well. I am so happy to see even though life is moving forward for everyone that there are still good wishes coming across Heathers web site. To Chris; Hey there.........A picture of Heathers Tree. Here's what I can do, in 2 weeks my sister is coming down from Big Lake Alaska......she and my niece that's been traveling around Europe for 3 years now.......well, she will be taking lots of pictures to take home, they send me photos from the north all the time. So, I shall have her take some nice ones and send them to you? Do you remember Seth? A super nice guy.........talk again soon. Love to all, "Relentless" aka......
Petie <petie35@netzero.com>
USA - Tuesday, June 29, 2004 at 15:53:15
Petie, is there anyway you could take a pic of Heather's tree, scan it, and email it to me. I would like a pic of the tree. Thanks
Chris <canda@surewest.net>
Roseville, CA USA - Tuesday, June 29, 2004 at 13:18:25
I was really happy to see you Uncle Ed. I hope that you come again soon and bring Aunt Cydney with you. Well I wanted to say that I love you guys and I hope things are going well. God Bless you all Love , Haley
Haley Brous <www.ljritr@aol.com>
Crescent City, CA USA - Monday, June 28, 2004 at 18:51:23
I was hoping people knew by now that any massage to support the defendant and
his family will be deleted. this is a place ONLY for people who would like to
support Carpenter family.
webmaster
USA - Monday, June 28, 2004 at 13:45:23
Hello Family; Just wanted to visit Heathers space for awhile and read the recent postings. Some things never change...........I want to share a little story with you. I have some tree work that needs to be done on my property.........the company employee that visited me to explain what needed to be done..........is a young man named "Seth" that went to school with "Chris" Carpenter. The tree that needs trimming is right next to "Heathers Tree". While we were talking, he said "I have never seen such a beautiful cedar in this area". I told him how the tree got that way.........because Heather brought it back to life and her spirit is what makes it so beautifulllll!!!! The tree is growing like crazy, so full of life now, it sure wasn't that way before. Thank You Sweet Heather for making sure your tree grows stronger with each passing day. Sincere regards come your way from Seth, I promised him I would pass that along to you Chris, love to all, Sincerely
Petie
USA - Saturday, June 26, 2004 at 22:35:46
Sometimes kids deliberately decide to travel the wrong road, no matter how careful their parents have been -- but we parents don't have to help them make this trip. Here is a checklist of four main traits that combine to form the hallmark of bad parenting. Are you doing any or -- God in heaven forbid it -- all of these four things? If so, you'd better get a grip on the reality of original sin and stop being such an amoebae #1 -- Bad parents are immediately defensive when their child is criticized and hasten to discredit the critic.
Yes, yes, I know....a parent's first instinct is to protect and defend, but there are a lot of parents who have carried that to an incredible extreme. #2 -- Bad parents expect everybody to be as crazy about their kids as they are. But parents are the only people (with the exception of the child's grandparents) who think that their kid is just limitlessly adorable. But if your child happens to be well-behaved, people will either appreciate your child's good manners or, with time, come to genuinely enjoy him or her. But no one else will ever feel about your child the way you do, and bad parents never want to believe this is true. Hey, who could possibly mind being whacked in the head with a plastic toy if it's being done by such a sweet little sugarbritches? #3 -- Bad parents cover for their children and protect them from the consequences of their actions. Children are rash and impulsive little things and they need to learn to control themselves. They learn self control by understanding that bad choices have bad consequences. A liberal dose of embarrassment and knee-knocking fright generally go a long way in convincing them that this is so. If you're muttering to yourself, "Well, THAT certainly seems unnecessarily harsh," you'd better watch out -- you could be coming down with a case of bad parenting. #4 -- Bad parents have never found an excuse they wouldn't use in order to justify their child's actions or attitude. This trait harkens back to trait #2. There are so many pitfalls in parenting. No parent wants to raise a brat, a beast, a shooter, or murderer, but some of us do in spite of our best intentions. I am willing to point out that my own children are young -- how they'll turn out, I don't know. We have our hopes, of course. Our plan is to teach them self-control, personal integrity and a sense of responsibility to themselves, their families and their fellow citizens, even when it hurts both them and us. Frankly, without God's help and a lot of prayer, we'd probably manage to screw them up somehow. But as I said, I have my hopes that they'll grow up to make us proud, and I hope the same for all of you and your kids. They're about the only hope we have for a decent world.
Dusti
USA - Saturday, June 26, 2004 at 14:46:23
I have a question. Why do people like "angry" take the time to check out Heather's Site??? It doesn't make sense if you think about it.
Relative
CA USA - Saturday, June 26, 2004 at 11:22:17
Isnt is a shame that to some people spoiling your children, handing them everything, money, material possessions, cars, whatever, is a sign of love and good parenting!No wonder our country and young people are so troubled!
Redding Resident
Redding, USA - Saturday, June 26, 2004 at 07:44:25
Very well said!!
Relative
CA USA - Saturday, June 26, 2004 at 01:08:05
Vandalism, theft, fighting in the streets, and generally doing everything to make a complete nuisance of themselves ... these activities performed on a daily basis by this country's undisciplined brats. A great deal of these crimes are not being committed by those teenagers whom we normally suspect (poor, urban, living in bad neighborhoods). No, the majority of these hooligans are middle class, spoiled, white kids living in this nation's ever-sprawling suburbs. These "Gameboy" toting, credit card carrying, self-centered, "wannabe" thugs are the ones hurling profanities at their elders while perched atop their skateboards. They are also the ones filling this nation's juvenile court dockets, thus making it a problem for all of us. So what has brought about this terrible condition in our nation's teenage population? Haven't these kids been given every advantage? Haven't they been given nothing but self-esteem boosts by our public schools? Is it television, violent video games, and movies? Perhaps it's MTV that is turning our teens into "pseudo gangbangers" and making them sexually active at an ever increasing younger age! The moral climate in this country has certainly worsened over the last twenty years, but is that the fault of MTV? Undoubtedly, Hollywood contributes to the foul language and lousy attitude of American teenagers, but it is ridiculous to lay the blame for what has become of our future leaders at "Tinsel Town's" doorstep. The ultimate blame must lie with the parents of those teens. Parents, who seem to hand control of the family over to their children. Parents, who would rather be their child's "friend", than live up to the role of mother, father, and yes....disciplinarian! Parents, who have gotten out of the business of raising their children, being their "friend" thus alleviating themselves of all responsibility. It is these same parents who shift the blame for everything their children do from themselves, even from their children, to the fault of the media or anyone else but them. More today than ever, American teens seem to have no respect for their families, their teachers, the law, nor each other. In response to these things, parents should examine their own actions, stop choosing the easy role of "friend" and take the more difficult role of parent.
A Friend
USA - Saturday, June 26, 2004 at 00:03:14
The answer to your question Angry is a big YES!!! I have met them and I do know what the hell Im saying here.
Megan
Redding, Ca USA - Friday, June 25, 2004 at 22:23:54
Why in the hell is "angry" angry? She has no reason to be angry. Her daughter, sister, friend, etc.., was not murdered. "angry" should be "ignorant".
Relative
CA USA - Friday, June 25, 2004 at 19:40:17
Madd is so right! As parents it is our responsibility to parent our children in the right direction. There was no parenting from this family.So this is the result of absent, selfish parents. It is not entirely their fault, but I blame them 99% for not setting boundaries, for not being responsible parents, and never saying no to Patrick! When Heather said NO, he couldnt handle it.
Megan
Redding, Ca USA - Friday, June 25, 2004 at 07:55:51
It really is sad how alot of us met the Carpenter family. Although I am so glad that I have had the chance to meet such wonderful people, the circumstances that brought them into our lives is really tragic. We all should have met Heather through the amazing things she would have accomplished in her life. We should have read about her in the paper for the great things she did and all the people she helped. We should not have had to meet Heather and her wonderful family thru this tragic series of events. It really makes me mad to think that all of this could have been avoided if the accused parents would have taken charge of thier 17 year old kid and told him what he was going to do instead of the other way around. All of this could have been avoided if his parents would have kept better watch over thier minor child. I've heard people say, "Well, Heather was at that party too". So what???? Heather was 22 years old. Old enough to live on her own, pay her own bills, so I'm sure it was okay if she wanted to go to a party with her friend. The kid on the other hand lived at home with Mommy and Daddy-like all kids should. Only most Mommys and Daddys make sure thier children are at home by midnight or so. Not out all night at an ADULT party until God knows when doing who knows what. And most Mommys and Daddys would not leave thier minor children at home alone for days at a time with no supervision. I'm not blaming them directly but I do believe they had the power to keep this from happening if they were more responsible parents.
This should be a lesson for all parents to take the time to get to know more about your children, thier friends and what they do and how they spend thier free time away from home. Give your minor children a set time to be home and enforce it. Don't let your child be the next accused murderer because you aren't paying attention!!
Just Maddd
USA - Friday, June 25, 2004 at 06:28:44
I never knew Heather, I never even came in contact with her. But not a day goes by that I do not think about her. I can't begin to imagine the horrific visions that go through the families minds when they think about what this monster did to her. I don't know how I would go on if this were my daughter. I think very highly of the Carpenter family for keeping their heads up and going on with life. My heart goes out to all who knew and loved this beautiful young woman. May God be with you all. He holds Heather in his arms now, please be comforted by that. If I ever see you, I hope I can give you a huge hug. I greatly admire your family
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REDDING, CA USA - Thursday, June 24, 2004 at 15:00:50
I don't know why I continue to come to this site. Some part of me hopes that this tragedy did not happen and all that was will be again. Heather could have been so many things to so many people - the point being is that she was robbed of her future and looking at her pictures are quite heartbreaking. It amazes me how someone can take this away from her and her family. I clench my jaw in anger as I look through this site once again. NO ONE should have to go through this. Dammit - I still cannot believe it
Blind <fourfor@mailcity.com>
Germantown, MD USA - Thursday, June 24, 2004 at 14:24:13
I knew Heather from the Sun Oaks Tennis and Fitness.I had only run into her a few times but she was one of the sweetest people ever. This was one of the most tragic times I've experienced. I will miss her and miss seeing her at the gym.
Lauren <rockinrockstar180@yahoo.com>
Redding, CA USA - Sunday, June 20, 2004 at 18:18:17
FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS
A million times we think of you, A million times we cried, If love alone would have saved you, You would of never died. In life we loved you dearly, In death we love you still, In our hearts you hold a place, No one can ever fill. A light from our world is gone, A voice from our love is stilled, an empty place in our lives, Which never can be filled. Some may think you are forgotten, Though on earth you are no more, But in our memory you are with us, As you always were before. It broke our hearts to lose you, But you did not go alone, A part of us went with you, The day God called you home. Your precious memories are for keepsakes, with which we'll never part, God has you safely in his keeping, But we have you forever in our hearts. We Miss You Heather
Concerned
USA - Friday, June 18, 2004 at 05:08:57
Deuteronomy 31:8 - The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.
A Friend
USA - Friday, June 18, 2004 at 04:37:22
Hello all - A beautiful Memorial bench has been donated
by Heather's family, on the north side of the Redding River Trail, off Harlan
Drive. Many thanks to the City of Redding who helped pick out an amazing location
for the bench with a view of the river and oleanders growing nearby. It has served
as a wonderful place for friends and family to go to reflect on wonderful memories
of our Precious Angel. We hope all of you will get a chance to enjoy the bench
as we have. We love and miss you Heather and we always will!!
Heather's Family
USA - Monday, June 14, 2004 at 10:22:56
Just wanted to stop by and pay my respects to your family. I hope you are all well and finding life a bit more bearable these days..........take care, and Love to all.
Petie
USA - Saturday, June 12, 2004 at 08:27:57
To the family members, I am so sorry for your loss. I ran upon this site through links from others. Mainly, and I do not mean to upset anyone, I was searching the paranormal and found a page to comment on thoughts. My heart goes out to your family. There are no words one can express for the loss of another, but God will see each of you through it. just as an added note, my thoughts ran to a female, someone she knew well as being part of what happend, and jealousy. I will end it there, and may god bless each of you.
mel <reedsm@localnet.com>
oh USA - Wednesday, June 9, 2004 at 21:30:25
Heather and her family, I want you all to know how much I think about all of you guys. I think about Heather everyday and miss her very much and have dreams that we are out having fun... I pray that God will be with you all. I know Heather is with Him and at peace. I love all of you.
Tami Sutton (Chico)
Tami Sutton <TbopSut@netscape.net>
Chico, ca USA - Wednesday, June 9, 2004 at 14:34:31
I WILL KEEP EVERYONE MOURNING IN MY THOUGHT'S ... STAY STRONG!!! I LOVE YOU ALL
Ashlee
Redding, USA - Saturday, June 5, 2004 at 22:43:28
To Heather's friends and Family it's been a while since I last added to Heather's guestbook, but I wanted you all to know that even still not a day goes by that she is not in my thoughts. I can't imagine how hard this still is for you, missing everyday life with a girl who had so much to offer the world. It's like going outside only for there to be no sunshine, without Heather's beautiful smile and laughter. You are forever in my thoughts.
Sincerly, Lisa Buwalda
Redding, Ca USA - Thursday, June 3, 2004 at 09:40:18
missing you everyday Heather. I will love you always!!!
a friend
Redding, USA - Wednesday, June 2, 2004 at 15:18:28
Everone that loved or even knew Heather knows that she is so peaceful now because she was such a wonderful person. She made everyone laugh at least 10 times a day...she made me cry with laughter at least once a day!! She was my very best friend growing up and I know she'll be waiting for me in heaven. My point to this entry is, everyone should rejoice because Heather is in peace in heaven, and the ones that loved her and she loved will be reunited with her in time. Cydney, Ed, I love you and I'll see you in two weeks!!! Kisses and Hugs to All who cared for Heather.
Stephanie Fancher <stephfancher@hotmail.com>
Maui, USA - Saturday, May 29, 2004 at 17:28:22
My thoughts and prayers go out to you. I am so sorry for your loss, but I am greatfull for I was able to get to know Heather and have a few classes with her in High school. She was truley a great person and she will be missed. I am currently in Turkey and I was not able to be home for the service but I wrote this in memory of Heather and she will forever be in my thoughts.
Taken to soon
You never know what life is truly like until it comes too a rushing stop. Until your next day is your last and your last day just wasn’t enough. You never know how much time you have here, but no one ever figures it will be short.
We all sit and plan a full life, a life full of happiness, laughter, love and more.And for some of us we will be so lucky to live our lives to the fullest.But for a select few, their time is taken from them before it really starts.
For whatever reason it my be, their life ended to quick,
and without any warning. So now all who are left behind are left with the memory and the pain. But with every new day we face, we shall remember the ones left behind.
The ones who died for no reason, but with each new step we take, we take for you. And for the life that was taken from you.For you will never be forgotten, and your sprit will live on through us.
In Loving Memory of Heather Marie Carpenter
May peace be with the family and friends and all who have been touched but Heather.
Stephanie R. Welch <stephanie.welch@incirlik.af.mil>
Turkey - Thursday, May 27, 2004 at 14:56:45
I hope you have found Peace in Heaven
Dee
OC USA - Thursday, May 27, 2004 at 07:05:43
There will never be a logical or reasonable answer to what happened to Heather. Thank God there was closure in that we have Heathers murderer in jail and we know that she is now safe with God in heaven. But that still doesn't help the hearts of those who loved Heather so deeply. Emotional pain comes in waves. Sometimes the waves crash with great force and it feels like your heart will explode. When that happens you need to remind yourself that while the waves wash over you they will not drown you. The waves will never go away but they will weaken and become less frequent. As difficult as it is for you to believe right now, one day, instead of only feeling waves of pain, you'll feel surges of bittersweet pleasure in the memories, joys and rewards that are the result of Heather having lived on this earth and shared her life with a loving devoted family and a close network of friends. And with time and the loving support of your family and friends and your own positive actions, you will find ways to deal with this deep loss. Let that same wonderful heart of yours that loves Heather so much, also love you. Take care of yourselves and each other. You are in my prayers as always.
Concerned
USA - Monday, May 24, 2004 at 18:12:58
AMI and Heidi - It will never make sense to any of us. The only thing we can know is that he is a weak, unhappy, evil person who will get everything he deserves and she was a strong, happy, good, loving amd sweet girl who will be missed by so many and was unfairly taken from this world. But I know if there is a Heaven, our Angel Heather is there looking down on us all.
a friend
USA - Monday, May 24, 2004 at 15:05:43
I too, Heidi, cannot understand the evil that dwells in people. Just know that she is with God now and the monster that did this to your sister will live in eternal hell. She smiles down on you daily and she sends you sweet dreams at night. May God bless you and your family. Trying to understand the evil doings is something that will probably never happen. Try to remember the good times you had with her for the short times she was here. My prayers are with you and your family.
AMI
PALO CEDRO, CA USA - Friday, May 21, 2004 at 09:14:02
I look at Heathers pictures everyday and try to understand how something like this can happen to someone so special. She brought so much happiness to so many, I only hope she realized. I know our Angel is in Heaven looking down on all of us, hearing our prayers for her and all the kind words people have said about her...we miss you Heather and we will never forget you!
Heidi
USA - Wednesday, May 19, 2004 at 11:56:14
Thank you for sharing your photo album with all of us, they are beautiful pictures. We will never forget Heather.
Missy Govier
Puyallup, WA USA - Tuesday, May 18, 2004 at 15:43:54
Heather...I will never forget your contagious laugh, your silliness, your kindness, your stubborness and wit. I love you and I miss you from the bottom of my broken heart!
a friend in pain
USA - Tuesday, May 18, 2004 at 09:28:42
I woke up smiling this morning, knowing that I had a great dream. I remember shopping in Redding, and randomly I saw you and we laughed and hugged just like we had been friends for years. Just like we were jump starting this bond that had been buried but not forgotten. Just like it was always suppose to be. But I woke up, and checked your website like I do every day. And realized, my dream will never come true. That while I was happy and peaceful while I slept, I awoke to the fact that evil took you away. It's scary... and frightening... and angry. But I will get dressed and go to work, believing that you remind me of the beauty in life. I will laugh today for you and speak with your story on my heart. And tonight, as I drift to sleep, I hope you will visit my dreams again so that I forgive myself for thinking I'd always have one more day.
Ashlee
USA - Tuesday, May 18, 2004 at 04:18:50
You are still in our thoughts and prayers, Always, Sheryl Little Sampley
Sheryl
Mt. Gate, Ca USA - Saturday, May 15, 2004 at 14:20:11
Heavenly Garden
God has a lovely garden
In His mansion up above,
He tends the garden every day
With tenderness and love.
The flowers that are in it
Are the sweetest and the best,
To get into God's garden
They have to pass a test.
He goes around them every day
Treating them with care,
You're really very lucky
You have a flower in there.
And when you reach the garden
You'll look at it with pride,
Knowing God, He'll probably put you
At your loved one's side.
Concerned
- Saturday, May 15, 2004 at 06:52:41
To all of Heather's family and friends, I can only imagine how special she was. Her smile says alot. I wish I could have known her. Although, since visiting her web site, I sort of feel like I did get to know her. I will be praying for your hearts to heal. I hope each day will be a little brighter and I will continue to keep you in my prayers.
Ashley
GA USA - Tuesday, May 11, 2004 at 11:56:57
Dear Carpenter Family, it has been awhile since I have been to this site, but I have thought and prayed for you all often. I was touched by the new Memoir section of pictures that has been added. It reminds me of my family. I can see in the pictures the closeness and the love that all of you shared; how much fun you all had when you got together. This kind of love is what will continue to carry you thru these trying times. It's so easy to be sad and miss Heather, but dont forget to be happy about the times you all shared together and the joy that Heather brought into your lives. God bless you all and may you continue to seek Him for peace and comfort.
Kara <karo75@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, May 9, 2004 at 09:23:37
A Special Mother's Day Gift... Please don't be sad today. We are still celebrating. Just in a different way. I hope you enjoy the gifts that I bring. I'm sending them down on an angels wing. I'll be watching from a star. In a land where angels are. I send you the sunshine and the gentle breeze upon your face. I send you all the flowers that make the world a prettier place. I send you butterflies with soft and delicate wings. These are the kind of things that this Special Mother's Day brings. You make the world a better place. So put that beautiful smile back on your face. For I will always watch over you. In everyway and everywhere, I will always be there. So please don't be sad at what this day brings. I'm still your Precious Angel. But now I have wings. (written for Cydney Carpenter in honor and memory of her loving daughter, Heather)
Dusti
USA - Sunday, May 9, 2004 at 07:52:29
Hello to Heathers family and for sure Heathers Mommy........I send you bundles of Purple and Pink flowers and ribbons for "Mothers Day" and lots of hugs and kisses to warm your spirit.......As always I wish you calm seas and blue skys.......today and forever.
Petie
USA - Wednesday, May 5, 2004 at 07:31:26
TO HEATHER.....IF WE HAD JUST ONE WISH OR A DREAM THAT WOULD COME TRUE, WE'D WISH WITH ALL OUR HEARTS FOR YESTERDAY AND YOU. A MILLION WORDS CAN'T BRING YOU BACK, WE KNOW BECAUSE WE'VE TRIED. NEITHER WILL THE MILLION TEARS WE'VE CRIED. WE KNOW THE ANGELS WERE SINGING THE DAY THAT YOU ARRIVED AND JESUS WAS THERE TO MEET YOU WITH HIS ARMS OPEN WIDE. WE ARE LEFT WITH BROKEN HEARTS AND HAPPY MEMORIES TOO. BUT WE NEVER WANTED MEMORIES. WE ONLY WANTED YOU.
Concerned
USA - Monday, May 3, 2004 at 17:56:30
Ever since I first heard that your precious loved one went missing last summer I have made sure to never let more than a week go by with out checking for new information, making sure that others know about your struggle, your pain and the wonderful person who was ripped from your life. I was attacked by a 24 yr old male a little over 2 yrs ago, he tried very hard to, by brute force and excessive violence abduct me from the foyer of my apartment building. I was fortunate enough to get away with only cuts bruises and a nightmare that replays in my mind, now ,finally he is now in jail where he cannot prey on young females anymore. I know what it is like to sit in court and have to look at someone day to day who has had no mercy but know will look for anyway to receive mercy from others. Please know that no matter what hurtful things may or may not be said about your loved one in an attempt to excuse the accused behaviour God knows and see's all..I and my family had to endure some of these attacks on our character. Please continue to be strong, surround yourselves with all your wonderful memories that can never be tarnished no matter what.
I make you a promise that although I probably never would have met your daughter I will never allow her to be forgotten. All my love and prayers, Renee
Renee <renhead79@hotmail.com>
Toronto, oon canada - Monday, May 3, 2004 at 11:48:14
I just wanted to let the family of Heather know how very sorry I am about their tragic loss. She is a beautiful girl, I wish I could have known her. God Bless you all!
Linsey <youn0573@umn.edu>
Woodbury, MN USA - Thursday, April 29, 2004 at 17:15:19
i just wanted to thank "Concerned" who created the animation picture
of heather at the top of this page.
webmaster
USA - Thursday, April 29, 2004 at 11:48:24
This is a very beautiful site and I'm Sorry for the families losses
Harry Nichols <_bulldog63@excite.com>
Meridian , Id USA - Thursday, April 29, 2004 at 10:33:13
"GUARDIAN ANGEL" Just like a beautiful long stemmed rose,
Her precious memory grows and grows.
Touching the hearts of all of those she loves,
And like the fragrance of that same rose,
Her love so sweet still flows and flows,
Filling our lives with a warmth,
that shows she's there,
So, like a forever-blooming rose,
The beauty she shared eternally glows,
For deep in our hearts,
Each of us know,
She is always with us,
Wherever we may go.
Concerned
USA - Thursday, April 29, 2004 at 04:03:03
I stumbled upon this website by accident, but now I know it was not accident. I, maybe like most folks, forget about the lives of the innocent children of God, taken from the earth by the evil one. She is a beautiful child and I know I came to this site to remember, and see those that are able to fight the evil that wants to take them away. Only through our prayers is the evil bound to the chains that control their future. One day face to face HE will be shining with embrace, one day will be reunite with the greatest warriors and she will be
MGBADA GUY MEN <MUGU@MUGU.COM>
IHIOMA, IMO USA - Thursday, April 29, 2004 at 02:31:58
God must had needed an angel
And that's what he found in Heather
To help him create the clouds
That bloom within bright weather
He knew to look for grace
And a warm and gentle face
He saw this all in Heather
So he called her up to Heaven
And although she is not with us
There is one thing you can trust...
God needed your angel in Heaven.
I am so sorry for your loss.
KZ <morgan46@pacbell.net>
CA USA - Wednesday, April 28, 2004 at 20:18:35
I will pray for you family.
Amy Widney
St Louis, Mo USA - Wednesday, April 28, 2004 at 13:38:12
thanks so much for putting that memory page at heathers web site! My family continues to pray for the carpenters. I'm sure I can speak not only for myself and family but for everyone who knows heather not a day goes by we dont think of her and her smile, but just looking at those photos brings comfort knowing heather is smiling with the angels. God bless all of you.
sarah newton <sarah_snips@sbcglobal.net>
davis, ca USA - Tuesday, April 27, 2004 at 22:26:05
Heather was always in my prayers. She is with the angels now and I hope she is in peace. She, like so many others, didn't deserve this. She will be missed always. I will continue to pray for the family and friends of Heather.
Shanna <shannawoodard@pacbell.net>
Redding, CA USA - Tuesday, April 27, 2004 at 15:00:54
When this page first started I wrote in the guest book, but not sure of what I said I decided to write again. I also wanted to write again because I now know the feeling of losing a loved one. My best friends little brother Tony Jeantet died on 1/24/04. Tony wasn't just my best friends little brother, he was my little brother and I say that because he was. After only dealing with it for a short while I learned of anothers friends death, Matt Grover on 4/4/04. I never knew Heather but after reading all of the comments I realized something, Heather was a lot like Tony and Matt. They lived their lives to the fullest and everyone they met they touched somehow. Their lives were full of love and they never regreted anything, as matt would say "No Regrets." Heather, Tony, and Matt all left too soon but their legacy will live on in everyone and everything they encountered in their short time here on earth. Now they are angels and they can rest in peace, and watch over their loved ones. I wrote a poem when Tony died and I would like to share it:
I wonder where you are,
but know that you are safe.
I hear you,
but I can't see you.
I feel you,
but I can't touch you.
I smell you,
but only for a moment.
I hear you laugh,
but only in the wind.
I hear you speak,
but only in my dreams.
I hug you,
but never put my arms around you.
I kiss you,
but it may never touch your cheek.
I see you smile,
but only in pictures and memories.
I cry for you,
but wonder if you hear me.
I MISS YOU,
but only until we meet again!
Once again sorry for your loss, and I hope that the memories you have of your daughter, sister, and friend keep you laughing in your heart.
Amy Corella <Tacomalover@msn.com>
Redding, Ca USA - Monday, April 26, 2004 at 13:00:58
I just want everyone to know that Heather was one of the greatest people that I ever had the pleasure of knowing. I will never forget her and will always cherish the things that I learned from her...which is to live my life to the fullest, always have a positive attitude, and to have lots of fun with my family and friends. I wish she was here right now, so we could go to the lake and ride jet skis like she loved to do. She was the most fun to hang out with, and she was also a loyal friend who was always there for me when I needed her. I love her and miss her so much.
Wish you were here
USA - Saturday, April 24, 2004 at 17:16:53
I Really Miss You"
I called you today just to hear you say
You were not around
When the message was through, though I wanted to
I couldn't make a sound
I wanna tell you the things I've seen
I wanna take you to where I've been
And I wish you were here with me
Don't you know
I really miss you - yes I do - yeah
I really miss you
Ohhhh yeah I do
I'm writing to say I had a wonderful day
Hangin' with my friends
But the memory dies as the sun reach the skies
I'm alone again
I wanna tell you the weather is fine
When the night comes around you were on my mind
And I wish you were here with me
Don't you know
I really miss you - yes I do - yeah
I really miss you - yes I do - I miss you
I really miss you
Ohhhh yeah I do
I wanna tell you the things I've seen
I wanna take you to where I've been
And I wish you were here with me
Oh, don't you know
I really miss you - yes I do - yeah
I really miss you - I miss you
I called you today just to hear you say
You were not around
When the message was through, though I wanted to
I couldn't make a sound
I'm writing to say I had a wonderful day
Hangin' with my friends
But the memory dies as the sun reach the skies
I'm alone again
no name
USA - Friday, April 23, 2004 at 19:01:30
Heather this is your cousin I just wanted to say, We miss
you so much,I always pull your pictures up everyday while Im at school just to see your smile. I love you and will
always hold you close in my heart and prayers.
Patricia Marsili <Patriciamarsili@empirecollege.com>
Santa Rosa, Ca USA - Friday, April 23, 2004 at 10:36:42
Patricia Marsili <Patriciamarsili@empirecollege.com>
Santa Rosa, Ca USA - Friday, April 23, 2004 at 10:28:26
I got this poem off a website of a mother whom lost her 3 month old last Easter.
IF tears could build a stairway
And memories a lane
I'd wlak right up to heaven
and bring you home again...
and this was the verse of an old song my grandfather wanted read at his funeral after my grandmom died.
Hello walls
How'd things go for you today?
Don't you miss her since she up and walked away?
And i'll bet you dread to spend another lonely night with me
But lonely walls, i'll keep you company.
Hello window
Well, i see that you're still here
Aren't you lonely since our darlin' disappeared?
Well look here, is that a teardrop in the corner of your pane?
Now don't you try to tell me that it's rain.
She went away and left us all alone the way she planned.
Guess we'll have to learn to get along without her if we can.
Hello, ceiling. i'm gonna stare at you a while.
You know i can't sleep so won't you bear with me a while?
We must all pull together or else i'll lose my mind.
Cause i've gotta feelin she'll be gone a long, long time.
She went away and left us all alone the way she planned.
Guess we'll have to learn to get along without her if we can.
Hello ceiling, i'm gonna stare at you a while.
You know i can't sleep so won't you bear with me a while?
We must all pull together or else i'll lose my mind.
I've gotta feelin she'll be gone a long, long time.
I've gotta feelin she'll be gone a long, long time
Susannah
PA USA - Thursday, April 22, 2004 at 13:18:38
Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God, I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10
A Friend
USA - Thursday, April 22, 2004 at 07:29:03
Just wanted to sign Heather's guestbook again and send another prayer your way. I pray that all the family is doing well and are finding some comfort in knowing that so many care for you.
Andrena <marche35@hotmail.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Tuesday, April 20, 2004 at 14:22:18
I just found out about Heather. Having been a college friend/roommate/sorority sister of her sister, Heidi, I met Heather many times when she would come to visit. Like her sister, Heather was funny, energetic, beautiful and smart. I'm happy to say that I knew her. Heidi, I would love to reconnect with you and offer any support that I can give -- even if it's just a laugh about our ole college days. Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family. Love, Deborah (Debby R.)
Deborah Linggi <deborah_linggi@hp.com>
San Diego, CA USA - Monday, April 19, 2004 at 12:31:41
Heidi and family, I just found out about this from the AX website and am so saddened. I had the pleasure of meeting Heather on a few occasions and she was an absolute delight to be around. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Lisa Bridges
Lisa Bridges <lisab@ptimail.com>
san francisco, ca USA - Monday, April 19, 2004 at 12:03:58
Somewhere beneath a bluer sky where purest waters gently flow. Our Lord has made a place for us free from all trials here below. And there someday we'll meet again the ones we love and long to see; And in God's presence we shall live together for Eternity. I pray that God will give you eyes to see beyond the clouds of earth into the glory of heaven and the peace that comes from knowing that Heather is there in His arms.
Concerned
USA - Sunday, April 18, 2004 at 14:58:03
Heather; Thankyou for taking the retired Deputy yesterday to the remains of "Dru Sjodin". We know you helped him find her so she could go home to her family and friends. She was also a beautiful young woman like yourself, maybe you are with her now. I would like to think so.......Bless you both. Take Care Of Eachother Forever
RELENTLESS
USA - Sunday, April 18, 2004 at 08:25:56
I did not know Heather, but when I read her story, my heart sank and tears welled in my eyes. I can only pray that her family finds some type of peace so they may go on until they meet again. She was so beautiful.
Robyn
Bayonne, Nj USA - Saturday, April 17, 2004 at 22:46:11
Dearest Family and Webmaster; Thank you so very much for such a sweet presentation of your beloved Heather Marie! She is so Blessed to have been surrounded by such Beauty in her short life. For all of us that have remained determined to stay by Heathers side, to be able to come to this site, and see this precious little girl and the "WAY IT WAS", is indeed a Profound experience. Heather, bless you sweetie, we all love you, appreciate what a good girl you were to your Mommy and Daddy. There will never be a time that you don't cross my mind, in my prayers, your always included, and your Tree will continue to grow through ETERNITY. With Love........
Petie Flournoy
USA - Saturday, April 17, 2004 at 17:19:20
When I found this site, I was shocked at how much she looks like my cousin, who I love dearly. It's still amazes me, how someone could do this to such a beautiful young lady, it makes you wonder what kind of world we live in. I know she is the sun, shining on our world, trying to make it a better place to live.
Lookalike
USA - Saturday, April 17, 2004 at 16:22:44
The pictures of Heather are beautiful. It really depicts the happy world that surrounded her. She brings new meaning to the phrase...."A smile is contageous." I cannot remember a time when we were all together that we were not laughing or joking about something. Uncle Ed, Aunt Cydney, Chris, and Heidi, you are always on our minds. "Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls." (E.H. Chapin)Be strong guys...we love you. Tami and family
Tami Evanow <TEvanow@aol.com>
Kuna, ID USA - Friday, April 16, 2004 at 18:30:07
Thank you for adding the pictures of Heather. I was nearly in tears looking at her beautiful life, and sorry for all those who knew her, for thier loss. At the same time happy that a person like this graced this earth. It seems the good die young. I have lost many friends who were the most wonderful people you could meet. Seems they have a higher purpose in life than to live among us mere mortals. They are here for a short time to put sunshine in our lives, and then they move on to put sunshine in heaven. We miss you Heather, and all the other wonderful people we once knew on earth. We know you are all smiling down on us. But it still hurts to think of not being with you on earth. One day we will all meet again! xoxoxo
Saddened
USA - Friday, April 16, 2004 at 11:55:10
You had a very beautiful daughter. Please keep her memory alive for she will always be with you in your hearts and souls.
JS
USA - Friday, April 16, 2004 at 10:58:11
I love the new album of Heather she is suck a beautiful person and this really shows it. She lived life to the fullest while she was here and for that I am sure her family is greatful. I know that she is in heaven watching down on all of us and she wants everyone to be happy and live life to the fullest for her. We miss you and love you Heather and Thank You for making us realize how precious life really is.
Thankful
USA - Friday, April 16, 2004 at 09:03:30
When I hear Train's song Calling on Angels I see
Heather's smiling face and feel that her spirit is
with the family. I hope you know that you'all are
still in our thoughts and prayers. Best Regards,
Linda S.
Cota/Modesto - Apr 06 2004 22:18:48
I just wanted to say that I am very sorry about Heather. She seemed like
a wonderful person. I visited the guestbook every day to see all the
wonderful things people had to say about Heather. I imagine that the
guestbook has been shut down due to the recent uncaring things that were
being placed there. I think it's terrible that you and all of Heather's
friends and relatives have to suffer because a few people ruined it.
Just know that there are those of us out here who you don't even know
that are thinking of you and praying for you always. May God be with you
and your loved ones.
Susan
Newark, DE - Mar 31 2004 13:31:08
It was very nice of you to add the picture of Heather wearing a cowgirl hat to her guestbook.
Christen Allen Iman
Redding, CA. USA - Wednesday, March 24, 2004 at 12:36:24
I love that you added a picture of Heather on the guestbook page. I would love to see a page of just pictures of Heather. She is just such a beautiful girl and her smile can brighten up even the darkest of days. Heather I hope you know how you have touched so many people in so many ways. You are and always will be a very very special girl.
Kelly
USA - Wednesday, March 24, 2004 at 11:39:09
I just want to say that some people are not using this site for what it was meant to be used for. This site was put here to support Heather and her family. Those of you who are not doing that please don't sign the guestbook. I am sure that Heather's family doesn't want to come to their daughter's website and see people arguing, so let's respect Heather, her family and this guestbook,and use it as it was meant to be used. Ed, Cydney, Chris and Hiedi, We love you, and Heather we miss you.
Someone who cares
USA - Wednesday, March 24, 2004 at 11:31:13
THERE HAVE BEEN 2 MORE KIDS KILLED IN A CAR ACCIDENT YESTERDAY HERE. PLEASE HUG YOUR CHILDREN, GRANDCHILDREN, LOVE YOUR FAMILIES, AND TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM. WE ARE NOT HERE ON A TRIAL RUN.
Nicole
Redding, Ca USA - Wednesday, March 24, 2004 at 08:26:15
Hey today is my birthday i was a close person to heather and i remember when i was little she sent me a birthday card we would write back and forth to each other i always looked up to her and wanted to be just like her today i turned 17 and in the mail i didnt recive that card that i once recived .Heather i thought about you today alot its not like i dont think about you but this day was just the day that i sat down and realy did i wish you were here to see me today i know your watching me from above. Heather i miss you a lot and i will never forget that one card it put a smile on my face and i read it today but today it made me cry
anonomus
USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 21:35:44
Mary Lou...........thank you so much for suggesting a picture of Heather attached to the guestbook. That is so special, what a precious little girl she is. Also, TO JENNY: in Napa.......i just read your letter about the time you spent with Heather that night, it's interesting how these things happen isn't it? A song from long ago, that did not mean a lot at that time, can come back....and it takes you right there again? Thank you for sharing that with us all. After Heather was taken, for some weird reason I started watching "Golden Girls", hadn't done that for 20 years.......then at the Memorial service I think it was Heidi that said Heather loved that sit-com........strange how that happened? My love to all
Petie
USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 17:48:17
The picture is so adorable, captures such a sweet spirit of Heather.
Original pissed
USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 16:11:21
Dear Carpenter Family,
I did not know your Daughter and Sister but I think of her often. I don't know if it is her sweet smile, or the stories and memories that her friends and loved ones have posted in this guest book. But it just seems as though she was a very sweet, caring, and loving person. Something about her just projects love, and makes everyone that is familiar with her story just love and respect and care for her so much, even those who never even knew her, like myself. Heather and I are the same age and yet I respect and look up to her like a Sister or something. I just wanted you to know that she really has touched many lives as I'm sure that she touched each of your lives in so many ways, that's why this is such a heartache for so many people. I cannot even imagine what your family has gone through, but I do know this...God is in control, put your faith in him and Heather. He does everything for a reason and your family just has to trust that he is taking care of you, and will heal your hearts and all of those who Heather touched. No matter what, Heather and her legacy will live on even though she is physically not here, you must be proud to have had such a wonderful Daughter and Sister. Based on the stories and descriptions that so many have given of her in this guestbook you all did a wonderful job of molding such a sweet and caring Daughter, Sister, Friend and Human Being. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless You.
Stephanie
Anderson, CA USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 15:30:31
thanks for the picture it really helps
mary lou
trinity center, USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 15:14:04
those who condem the innocent shall feel gods rath and those who believe the liars will become nothing look into your hearts and see the truth before it is to late
eyes open
USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 13:52:24
Yeah, and maybe patty's friends can create a "FRIENDS OF A MURDERER WEBSITE". Oh, their parents would be so proud!
a friend
USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 11:10:08
Thank you to all who are concerned about what our family reads on this guestbook. My suggestion is to ignore the messages the murderers "friends" post and do not address them because it just seems to fuel their ignorant thoughts. The Webmaster usually removes them before the family reads them anyway. I have read a couple of the posts, but I ignore them because nothing can change what the murderer did, and nothing can change what an incredibly special person Heather was. Heather was a good, positive person who gave so much love and happiness to so many people. She will be loved, missed and remembered fondly by so many, forever. For the murderer it is the opposite...he is an evil, sick person whose contribution to this world was less than nothing...how sad. Him being locked away and taken from the outside world will only be celebrated by so many! Again, lets not address the posts from his friends, as infuriating as it may be, it is simply not worth the time and energy. Justice will be done and what will they have to say then???
Heather's sister
San Jose, USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 10:50:27
Unfortunately it had been quite a long time since I had last seen Heather when she was taken from us. We had been part of the same tennis team as kids, and had spent so much time together during our pre-teen years, but lost touch as we all went our separate ways in high school. I remember spending the night at Heather's house, I must have been about 13 and she was maybe 11, and staying up into the wee hours of the morning watching MTV. The video for that Radiohead song 'Creep' came on and Heather and I both laughed that one of the band members looked just like a porcelain doll. I had totally forgotten all about this particular experience, when I heard that same song (which doesn't get a lot of airtime these days) come over the radio on the first day Heather's murderer appeared in court. I was instantly reminded of so many things about Heather; her walk, her smile, her totally contagious laugh... It was so poignant, almost like something out there is committed to keeping her in our thoughts. It may seem silly to draw such significance from a song, but I've seen so many people write about Heather's influence in every day experiences. I think recalling these once forgotten memories will be a way in which Heather will remain involved in our lives even though she can't be here with us on Earth anymore. Carpenter family, may you draw strength from the memories of your sweet and wonderful girl during these tough times. You will always remain in my thoughts.
Jenny
Napa, CA USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 07:50:42
You know I feel really sorry for you people what do you think her parents feel
when they come to this site and see everyone arguing over their daughter and her
murderer. If you guys want to argue about all of this and act like 3 year olds
because NONE OF YOU CAN GET ALONG. I think you are probably better off going somewhere
else and not doing it here. This is just really wrong like concerned is implying
do you not know the meaning of a memorial??? If not, read what concerned said
and let it soak in a while and then come back and then to those of you who are
continuing here I think we ALL owe Mr. and Mrs. Carpenter a big apology for making
think harder on them by not giving them the support they need when they need it
the most and focusing on how they are doing instead of focusing on arguing and
fighting with each other. Please take it somewhere else. God Bless you Carpenters
I hope the best for all of you.
Just Been Watching
Shasta, CA USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 07:46:01
me·mo·ri·al
Function: adjective
Etymology: Middle English, from Latin memorialis, from memoria memory
1 : serving to preserve remembrance : COMMEMORATIVE
2 : of or relating to memory
This is a memorial site in case no one noticed. It was meant to share memories of Heather and to offer kind words to her family. Please quit making a 3 ring circus out of it. This is not a game or a funny joke as some have tried to make it. Its about a beautiful girl who lost her life to a violent evil person. And about her family who's lives have been shattered by her loss. Now would be a good time to practice that old saying, "If you don't have something nice to say, then don't say anything."
Concerned
USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 at 05:53:13
To all the little girlies who support Patrick.How could you even consider being friends with a murderer?I pity you.What if it were someone you are related to would you feel the same?To heathers carpenters family you will always be in my heart.Gods Angels will be with her forever...
Michele Rowton <angelsr4ever_2000@yahoo.com>
Los MOlinos , CA USA - Monday, March 22, 2004 at 23:21:56
Can everyone RESPECT the memory of this beautiful women, Heather Carpenter, who so tragically lost her life, instead of making this guesbook a dirty language shouting match back and forth? You should be ashamed of yourselves. May God Bless You All.
A visitor
USA - Monday, March 22, 2004 at 20:31:31
so sorry this happened to your family. god bless you all.
mary
ca USA - Monday, March 22, 2004 at 19:07:15
Im only 12 but i know how you are feeling. The feelings will probably never go away. but you have to know she is at peace in heaven looking down on you. Best of luck. GOd bless
Lauren
Miramichi, NB Canada - Monday, March 22, 2004 at 16:10:21
im sorry for your dauters loss and my prars are out to you im only 12 years old and i know how it feels my good friends frind that i knew was abducted in january.
leanne
clearwater, fl USA - Monday, March 22, 2004 at 13:48:39
heidi and chris, what would be the chances of having a small picture of heather, on the guestbook page?
mary lou
trinity center, USA - Saturday, March 20, 2004 at 10:10:23
I THINK EVERYONE WOULD AGREE THAT THE BEST CONTRIBUTION PATRICKS FRIENDS AND RELATIVES COULD MAKE NOW IS TO CONVINCE HIM TO CHANGE HIS PLEA TO "GUILTY" SO HEATHER AND HER FAMILY COULD FIND PEACE!
RELENTLESS
USA - Saturday, March 20, 2004 at 07:48:40
Mitzi had no problem whatsoever in coming here to Heather's site to disrespect Heather, the Carpenter Family and everyone who loves them. She also had no problem showing her true colors in court either. So like I said before if things that people say are upsetting to her or her friends then quit reading it. Or change your ways. We don't really give a crap what you, her or anyone else involved with that creep thinks about anything. Why are you having a hard time understanding that WE DON'T CARE ABOUT WHO LOVES PATRICK LARMOUR? This is about Heather Carpenter and getting some justice for her and her family. And its about the many that love and miss Heather too. Thus the name, Heather Carpenter Web Site.
Its not about anything else but that. So please try to refrain from using this site like its a fan club for Patrick Larmour. Thanks
Concerned
USA - Friday, March 19, 2004 at 18:16:38
I understand the anger you are showing but you are not going about it the right way. This is Heather's page, maybe you shouldn't be expressing it here. This behavior isn't going to help anyone!!! Since you obviously know who Lyzie is, tell her how you feel at the next court date, not here. Lets be respectfull to Heather.
ami <a1guido@yahoo.com>
REDDING, CA USA - Friday, March 19, 2004 at 09:09:55
Sincere regards to Heathers friends and family visiting her guestbook. Such beautiful weather, I bet Heather is giving it to us as a little gift to make us feel better. After reading this letter from one of the young ladies that was at the arraignment yesterday, once again I find myself totally bewildered. The antics I saw in the courtroom were not that of a "Friend" to ********. They were displays of pleasure at being there to see him! Pure and simple! I would question any parent that would encourage a juvenile, to go into a courtroom where someone is standing trial for "murder", and most importantly to me, what followed afterwards! What is that all about? Can these people not get a visual in their simple little minds.......where was Heathers remains found? The fact that young people, just could care so little about standing up for what's right...apologize......How'about APPALLING"?
Justins Mom
USA - Thursday, March 18, 2004 at 17:47:30
Very well said Rouge! and yes, thank you for coming forward Lyzie with the apology. It seems that you may have some compassion, but I am not sure you do understand the magnitude of what this murderer has done. HE HAS TAKEN AWAY A PERSONS LIFE. He has taken this wonderful person from her family and her friends, all who love her so much and now have huge holes in their hearts that will never heal. Rouge is right, do you really even know him? As a woman I am concerned, and I am happy that you were not victimized too. Please take care of yourself and be careful of the people you surround yourself with. Patrick is an evil murderer, lets face it.
A SISTER
USA - Thursday, March 18, 2004 at 15:10:39
Thank you for your apology, Lyzie. It is very humble of you to admit that your actions in the courtroom may not of been appropriate and you are sorrowful because of them. But I think my outraged friends might be trying to explain something greater. Your dear friend strangled a woman for over 5 minutes, and then strangled her longer just to be safe. He took a fellow woman's life, and has admitted to wanting to take another’s. What if Heather was your sister? What if Patrick gets a chance to kill again? What if he killed you? Would he be a dear friend then? Patrick committed a heinous crime against a beautiful person. But what is so scary about this story is that Heather could have been almost any woman. She could have been me, but more importantly, she could have been you. I can understand if Patrick was your dear friend, but now, he’s taken the life of another. Do you REALLY know him? Could you ever believe that your dear friend could take the life of another? Think hard about your friendships, because those who you choose to surround yourself with mold your character.
Rouge
USA - Thursday, March 18, 2004 at 14:55:49
I,as a woman, am very offended and put off by the fact that are other women out there that defend these sensless murderers!!!!! Lyzie, what if Heather was your sister? Would you still be supporting Pat then? I doubt it! It makes me very sad that there are people out there like you! Poor Heather did nothing wrong and Pat killed her!! It could have been you! How sad would that have been??? I will prey for you as I do for Heather and the Carpenter family. I will prey for your protection in case Pat ever does get out! This is not a place for his friends, please go to the jail or sit by your phone and wait for the collect calls if you want to support that cold blooded killer!!! You obviously DO NOT understand the severity of what has happened, don't pretend that you do. You are a disgrace to the entire female population.
OFFENDED
REDDING, CA USA - Thursday, March 18, 2004 at 14:35:18
I JUST WANTED TO WRITE AND SAY YOUR IN MY PRAYER'S AND THOUGHT'S DAILY,EVEN THOUGH I DIDN'T KNOW YOU, YOUR SUCH A SPECIAL WOMEN AND GOD WILL MAKE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE VERY SPECIAL!!!! YOU WILL BE MISSED ALWAY'S!!! LOVE,MACIEL FAMILY!!
jennifer <roweangle@aol.com>
redding, ca USA - Thursday, March 18, 2004 at 13:59:46
I am very sorry I offened any of Heathers friends or family at the arraignment on Tuesday. I do understand what has happened and my thoughts go out to everyone Heather has touched in her life. She was a beautiful woman! Pat is a dear friend to me, please don't judge me for that. Once again i appoligize, my deepest sympathys to everyone!
Lyzie
USA - Thursday, March 18, 2004 at 13:07:56
Darn! Unfortunately I didnt get to see what intelligent, and insightful crap Ditzy Mitzy wrote on this site! I can only imagine! I am more than embarassed for anyone who will come on HEATHER'S site to even claim to be pattys friend. Hey Ditzy! He confessed to his friend about strangling a wonderful, beautiful girl to death! ARE YOU FOR REAL?!?!...yes desperate is the word I would have to use for people like you!! Find a normal boy to hang out with you stupid immature girl!
EVEN MORE AMAZED
USA - Thursday, March 18, 2004 at 10:01:18
And by the way Mitzi We love Heather and her family too. Thats why we write here. In case you didn't notice the address here is www.heathercarpenter.com Not a fan club or pen pal address for girlfriends of Patrick Larmour. If you don't like what you read here about yourselves then maybe you should rethink the way you conduct yourselves in the publics eye. Or you can always just not come here. Both would actually be preferable to the many people here who love Heather and her family.
Concerned
USA - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 at 21:05:29
I didn't get to go to yesterdays proceedings but I was at the Prelim. It seems to me that if these people are communicating with each other and with the accused during court that they should be escorted from the court room. The defense for the accused had no problem whatsoever in asking Heather's family and friends to remove the buttons with Heather's beautiful face on it. But yet her family has to endure looking at his ugly face and listen to or watch these people talking to him and making stupid goo goo eyes at him during court! That seems a whole lot more serious than wearing Heather's picture on a button. This is not all about Patrick Larmour This is about Heather Carpenter and getting justice for "Our Girl" If the little twits need to communicate with him they should do so by mail or phone. Not the court room. I'm sorry that you all have had to endure such disrespect by these people. You certainly don't deserve it.
Concerned
USA - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 at 20:51:56
Hey, I haven't been on here in a while, Chris, that is really great about the Heather Falls things. Happy B-day Heather (sorry I wass a little late.) I hope the entire Carpenter family is okay.
P.S. Chris: e-mail me and talk anytime you want, I'm always their.
Donald R. Thomas <gothsinger123@yahoo.com>
Galt, CA USA - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 at 20:40:28
I too am shocked by the behavior of these young Naive (stupid really) girls. They are a disgrace to all women. They are head over heels for a murderer! How ignorant can one be?? ARE THEY THAT DESPERATE?? If he does get off, which he never will, those girls should be scared for their lives. He strangled a young, vivacious, beautiful girl to death. He looked her in the eyes as he strangled the life out of her body and then he bragged about it! Thank god for the young men and women who are coming forward with the truth about this creep! Just as there are murderers in this world, there are young stupid young women who are so desperate for love they will chase a sick murderer around. Just remember stupid girls as you are googling at him at the next court date... patty is going to be someones bitch soon, if he isnt already.... patty is going to be getting some lovin' of a different kind! Oh too bad!
AMAZED
USA - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 at 15:24:35
The Arraignment yesterday...........I was there, it was not a pleasant experience to make eye contact with the accused. There were several of his young, naive girlfriends smiling and giggling and looking at him adoringly.........made your stomach turn! The lady I was sitting with, she and I were angry that the accused...."for lack of the *******" name" was smiling and mouthing words to them....absolutely not allowed, but the girlies were not admonished from the courtroom. So, there will be a trial, there was the usual debate about what day would be best according to court schedules, attorneys case loads........August 2oth was mentioned by a reporter, then I believe August 24? There is a court date of May 17th for another pre-trial hearing. I'm sure that the young girls are expecting the accused to just come walking out, holding their hands, jump in his little truck and go party or something.......they all seem oblivious to the "REALITY" of what is happening. Yes indeed, makes one ill just to think about it? "HEATHER WE ALL LOVE YOU"!
Justins Mom
USA - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 at 13:47:33
According to the small bit in the Record Searchlight, Lamour plead not guilty and the trial is set to begin on August 24.
If someone knows more, please tell!
Answer
USA - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 at 13:43:49
Does anyone know what (if anything) happened at the arraignment yesterday?
Question
USA - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 at 12:52:28
NEWSFLASH! The name St. Patricks day is no longer an acceptable name So it has been changed to Leprechauns Day.
Concerned
USA - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 at 06:05:38
Always remember to forget
The things that made you sad.
But never forget to remember
The things that made you glad.
Always remember to forget
The friends that proved untrue.
But never forget to remember
Those that have stuck by you.
Always remember to forget
The troubles that passed away.
But never forget to remember
The blessings that come each day.
May the saddest day of your future be no worse
Than the happiest day of your past.
Happy Leprechauns Day
Concerned
USA - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 at 06:00:16
Heather, we all miss you so much, but I know that you are with God for a purpose bigger than we know. Since your birthday, I've just been flooded with memories of when we were both little. Going camping with our families, having fun together while our dads fixed up those old rentals, singing and dancing around your living room to old Paula Abdul tapes!!! My family and I miss you so much, but in our hearts, we know you're ok. Lots of love!!!
Matt Behling
Redding, Ca USA - Tuesday, March 16, 2004 at 22:31:26
well I don't really know where to begin. I have been on this site several hundreds of times and yet still don't know what to say.. Heather was a very special girl, full of smiles and humor.. She didn't deserve to be taken from this earth so soon. my thougth and prayers go out to ed and cydney as they cope through this terrible time in thier lives. I have a few memories of my and heathers family bar b queing in the back yard and swimming until we couldnt see anymore. those were the days. once agin my thoughts go out to you ed, cydney, heidi, and chris... love alison
Alison
Redding, ca USA - Tuesday, March 16, 2004 at 22:21:32
To the Carpenter Family,
It was a pleasure being able to finally meet you on Saturday at the Vigil of Hope in Modesto. Just listening to some of your stories of Heather I know what a special person she was. Thank you for sharing her with us. I wish you all the strength for the future!
Lori Ellsworth (Friend of Laci Rocha Peterson)
Modesto, Ca USA - Monday, March 15, 2004 at 14:16:32
May God carry you all in his arms as you continue on this horrific journey, just as he carries Heather. I am so sorry that this has happened to your family and all other families that this has happened to. May God keep you all.
A friend
Palo Cedro, CA USA - Monday, March 15, 2004 at 12:03:16
3/15/04
To all the family & friends of Heather Carpenter:
I have tried several times to post a message, but it
never appears...I hope, like many others, that Justice
will be done, starting with the court proceeddings on
March 16 in this awful matter...Prayers are with you all.
Toni
Redding, Ca USA - Monday, March 15, 2004 at 08:40:46
there will be times when you cannot add comments to this guestbook in the future. it means this guestbook is disabled on purpose for a reason. so if you cannot add any more messages, please wait until this is working again.
thank you for your support and patience.
webmaster <info1@heathercarpenter.com>
USA - Friday, March 12, 2004 at 16:26:46
Heather,we all know you were watching as we celebrated your special day.Thank you Lord for keeping our little angel safe.Petie's Mommy.
Ruby Ricketts <rubyer@cwnet.com>
Los Molinos , Ca USA - Friday, March 12, 2004 at 15:09:24
hey people whats up? nothing much here. Carpenter i'm sorry to hear and i hope you will be ok don't worry i know heather's there watching over you guys
heather carpenter <supergirl_Heather69@hotmail.com>
Bear Lake, Mi USA - Friday, March 12, 2004 at 12:05:49
ms cydney t edward carpenter i wish your daughter heather a blessed birthday and i hope your daughter had a blessed birthday on the 10th of this month in march which was on monday even though i did not really know your daughter heather i think i met your your daughter heather 1 time and that was it i think i was with my fiance at the time i met your daughter heather and i guess it was at her cheese cake unlimited job or i guess it was at her cr gibbs restraunt job in down town redding and up in redding on the east side of town well even know your daughter heather is up in heaven know and she only lived a short time god was with her on her birthday a few days ago and so was jesus angels so i believe your daughter had a blessed birthday i want to wish your daughter a happy blessed birthday again so happy blessed 24th birthday heather marie miss elizabeth nielsen
bethnielsen <bethnielsen2000@yahoo.com>
chico, ca USA - Thursday, March 11, 2004 at 21:28:46
There must be so many of us out here who sit here reading all these notes. It is so sad. I sit here crying. There are no words to say how sorry we are for your loss.
Jolene <jolenenbrian@verizon.net>
Lancaster, Ca USA - Thursday, March 11, 2004 at 16:00:30
Vigil of Hope
The Carole Sund-Carrington Memorial Reward Foundation announced its sixth annual Vigil of Hope is set for March 13 at Graceada Park in Modesto.
The vigil will begin with a march at 12:30 p.m. from the Victim's Garden at the Stanislaus County Courthouse. Organizers said the event will focus on missing persons, safety and prevention measures. Family members are encouraged to bring photographs and posters of victims, and carry the posters in the march from the courthouse to Graceada Park to keep attention focused on their loved ones. Lunch will be provided after the march, followed by speakers from law enforcement and victims' families.
notice
USA - Thursday, March 11, 2004 at 11:46:58
Happy Bithday Heather.. We love you so very very much.I know you are in heaven now and more than likely you are celebrating your birthday with other angels like yourself. I only wish Cydney, Chris, Heidi and I could be there with you to kiss and hold you and listen to you giggle,and laugh after playing jokes on us. You were a kick.You possessed all the attributes a parent could ask for in a child and you were an inspiration to us and the bond that helped hold our family together. Cydney and I miss you so much as does Chris, Heidi and the rest of our family. As many people have said on your website, you have touched so many lives in your brief period on this earth. So many people love you. Our lives have been changed forever and our hearts damaged beyond repair but today we drove to Redding to deliver flowers, plants, and special photographs to CR Gibbs, Cheesecakes, and Sunoaks in order celebrate your special day. We love you dearly and you will never be forgotten. We worked on finding several sites in Redding and Chico to place monuments to honor your beautiful life. Although it was difficult, we tried to be strong and make this a happy and upbeat day as we told ourselves you would want it that way. We cry alot because losing you has left a void in our lives, but we will try to take your advice of not to worry and go on with our lives. We will hold on to our wonderful and fond memories of you from the first day you were born until the day you were taken from our lives. Cydney and I remember those beautiful words Mommy and Daddy that you continued to call us until that tragic and nightmarish day. Thank you Heather for sharing your brief life with your family and the world. I have been unable to articulate anything on this website until now. However I want to thank everyone that has commented on this website for their tremendous support and show of respect and kindness. It has helped us endure. I especially want to thank Petie, and concerned. Thank you. Also thanks for celebrating Heather's birthday with us. Ed, and Cydney
Ed and Cydney Carpenter
USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 22:23:13
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HEATHER! YOU ARE A SPECIAL ANGEL...THE LITTLE THINGS YOU DID AND SAID, THE THOUGHTFULNESS YOU HAVE SHOWN, MAKE YOU VERY SPECIAL IN A WAY THATS ALL YOUR OWN. WE MISS YOU!!!!!
AUNT SHIRLEY AND UNCLE JOHN
CA USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 20:12:29
Hi Heather; Today 4 moms greeted one another with hugs and "how ya doin", we were gonna have a bite of lunch, struggled with just where? You know how all that goes, ended up on the river at a popular spot near Anderson. We ate kinda fast because "CONCERNED" was on her lunch break...........we had your Birthday cake waiting for us back at Bartels Burgers. What happened next was so sad Heather. Your new friend Concerned did not have time to sit and enjoy her cake, we had candles we were going to light as well. So, I simply cut her a piece to take along with her, and her candle. As we said our goodbye Heather, she cried, she cares so much about your family and what happened to you. So many of us that never even knew you sweetie, will continue to do whatever we can to keep your memory as vibrant as we can. Don't know what your favorite cake was sweetie, but this was white with coconut frosting. very yummy, since there were only the 4 of us, the employees at the shop were going to share the rest. I told them to make sure they appreciated this cake, because it is Heathers Birthday, and this is all about her. Dear child, I am so sorry your gone, it's nearly dark, I have turned the lights on for you, enjoy the tree sweetie, it's all I have for you today. With Love,
Petie
USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 18:07:38
i launched a bouquet of purple balloons around 2pm and the wind caught them and they were cruising, southbound. love
mary lou
trinity center, ca USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 15:09:27
Happy Birthday little sis.
I miss you soooooo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I built a waterfall and pond in my atrium and named it "Heather Falls".
I wish you could see it, it is amazing to look at.
I love you!!!
Chris
Roseville, CA USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 13:24:21
Happy Birthday Turkey! You will always be our Angel, but I'm still going to call you "Pumpkin" and "Turkey"! When you were born on March 10, 1981, you were the best thing that happened to our family. With your big, brown eyes and your contagious smile, you were the center of our lives and now we miss you so much that it is almost unbearable at times. I woke up early this morning and watched the sun rise and wished you a happy birthday...I know I never could have woke you up that early to say Happy Birthday when you were here on earth! I cry thinking it is so unfair that you are not here with us to celebrate, but I know you are always with us in many ways. I planted a rosebush this morning and buried Maya's remains with it. I know she is in heaven with you chasing tennis balls and lying by your side to protect you. I also planted many bulbs that will grow to become bright, beautiful flowers like you, and I will put them in the lovely lavender vase Aunt Cathy, Uncle Chris, Danny and Andy gave to me just for flowers for you. I will listen to your karaoke tape today with you singing "I got you Babe" just to hear the life and laughter captured on the recording. I will have steak for dinner, maybe even some lobster, because I know that is what you love. I love and miss you Heather, Happy Birthday!
Heidi
San Jose, CA USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 10:45:55
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PRINCESS! WE LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH! JEN, DAVE, SKYLER, AND KHRISTIAN.
Jennifer Clements <jennais1@aol.com>
Redding, Ca USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 08:54:13
Ed, Cydney and family I said a prayer for you today to have strength and peace and love. Happy Birthday Heather, I hope the cake in Heaven is delightful and as special as you are! I hope you know how many lives you touched during your short stay on Earth. God must have had big plans for you up in Heaven because you are surely missed here. Carpenter's may you find peace today in knowing your angel is being well taken care of and will never be hurt again by the cruelties of this world.
Just A Friend
CA USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 07:54:31
I wrote this poem for Heather and posted it the other day so people would remember Heather today. HAPPY BIRTHDAY HEATHER!!!
THIS YEAR YOUR BIRTHDAY IS MORE SPECIAL THAN ALL THE ONES BEFORE FOR TODAY WE SEND YOU WISHES RIGHT TO HEAVENS DOOR MAY ALL YOU LOVE SURROUND YOU ON THIS YOUR SPECIAL DAY MAY YOU KNOW YOU'RE THOUGHT OF OFTEN IN A VERY LOVING WAY AND WHEN THIS DAY IS OVER AND ALL IS SAID AND DONE MAY YOU KNOW TODAY LIKE ALL THE OTHERS YOU GAVE JOY TO EVERYONE AND WE ARE TRULY GRATEFUL TO HAVE THE CHANCE TO SAY YOU MEAN SO MUCH TO EVERYONE ON THIS AND EVERY DAY!! WE LOVE YOU HEATHER!!
Concerned
USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 05:57:17
Happy Birthday Heather! I was suppose to call you for your birthday last year and leave you a long, silly message like I use to. I'm so sorry that I missed the opportunity to rekindle our childhood friendship. I love you honey, and I miss you. I hope the angels have planned the a huge surprise birthday party for you today!
Ashlee Droscher <ashleejdroscher@hotmail.com>
Washington, DC USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 03:51:30
"Happy Birthday Ms. Heather Marie Carpenter". We love ya!
Petie
USA - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 at 18:28:14
It is a Heart Breaking time for the Carpenters tomorrow without being able to lavish their baby girl with beautiful pink and purple Birthday gifts. As for myself, I am going to lunch with my mommy, wear a purple shirt with Heathers pink ribbon in place, and make sure that the lights on "Heathers Tree" shine bright in her "Honor".
Petie
USA - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 at 18:26:18
Ed and Cyd, tommarrow is going to be a sad day for you I know, because it's march 10 Heathers bithday. Just know we are all thinking of you and love you, and miss Heather terribly
your sister Debbie
Debbie Brous <dbrous@delnorte.k12.ca.us>
crescent city, CA USA - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 at 12:26:10
The plans for the foundation are still in the makings. I'm not sure if anyone is aware of everything that is involved in such an endeavor. It will take some time to get it off the ground. And with the trial coming up, the family has decided to pursue some other memorial ideas until they have the proper time and energy to put into the foundation. Heather's family and members of this community will not let Heather be forgotten. Be assured of that.
Concerned
USA - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 at 05:55:14
What is going on with the Heather Carpenter Memorial that we were hearing about last week? Does anyone have information about this? Did it fall through? Heather we miss you!
Tommy F.
USA - Monday, March 8, 2004 at 19:06:01
This year your birthday is more special than all the ones before For today we send you wishes right to Heavens door May all you love surround you on this your special day May you know you're thought of often in a very loving way And when this day is over and all is said and done May you know today like all the others you gave joy to everyone And we are truly grateful to have the chance to say You mean so much to everyone on this and every day. Happy Birthday Heather!
March 10, 1981 to August 4, 2003
Concerned
USA - Monday, March 8, 2004 at 15:52:51
I still wish they'd let the sorry SOB out for about 30 minutes. Would save time and money.
MADDD
USA - Monday, March 8, 2004 at 14:40:01
Heather was so trusting, loving and caring and it is inconceivable that one hateful, stupid and just plain worthless monster could take her from all of us. Billions of this monster patty are not worth one of her. This punk will get everything he deserves in his future. May he live in Hell in Jail and when God does us all a favor and takes him from this world, I hope he burns in hell!
SAD and ANGRY
USA - Monday, March 8, 2004 at 14:15:16
I went to grade school with Heather, she was a beautiful, talented young lady who had her life taken to soon. Many of my childhood memories involve Heather that I will charish forever. Its funny how someone so young could impact so many people: One memory I would like to share with you just goes to show how sweet, and sharing she really was. "I think its was her 8th birthday party. She chose a teddy bear theme, we where all suppost to bring a teddy bear but I forgot mine, and wanted to go home. Heather took me upstairs to her room where she had a shelf full of teddy bears and told me I could chose any one of them. I guess I still had a sad look on my face because she handed me the one she had and told me it was her favorite and I could use it. She grabed another one off the shelf for herself, grabbed my hand and pulled me down stairs as we laughed and giggled!"
Heather was a beautiful person inside and out. That sick indivdual (patrick) may of taken her life but God gave us back an angel!
Jolynn
Chico, ca USA - Monday, March 8, 2004 at 11:53:38
I was a sorority sister of Heather's sister, Heidi at Chico State. I'm so sorry to hear about her sister. My prayer's go to her and her family.
Nicole Ellis Ovadia
Nicole <nicoleovadia@sbcglobal.net>
San Jose, CA USA - Monday, March 8, 2004 at 11:22:26
When I signed the guestbook in November, I was praying with your family for you to find Heather alive. I'm just sorry that wasn't to happen. I hope you are all able to find some closure within your grief, and my thoughts and prayers go out to all those who loved Heather.
God bless,
Loralie
Loralie
MN USA - Saturday, March 6, 2004 at 02:02:23
Just wanted to express my sorrow for your family. May god be with you. Heather will always look down at all of you with love and smiles. :-)
cristie <mallonmc@aol.com>
USA - Thursday, March 4, 2004 at 23:42:01
Heather, all sunshine and laughter Thats how we'll remember her from here ever after She lives in our hearts And there she will stay Until we meet her again on that glorious day We need to remember while we are weeping Its only her body that is sleeping We carry her in our hearts and keep her close by Our Precious Angel, her spirit will never die We take comfort in knowing and believing in what God said That he is the God of the living Not the God of the dead.
Concerned
USA - Thursday, March 4, 2004 at 09:38:59
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Heather. This is such a tragedy for everyone concerned. I can't imagine the strength it is taking to tolerate the hearings or in dealing with the press. This must be so difficult for everyone. I pray that God gives all of the family members and friends involved with this case the strength to make it through.
Someone who cares
USA - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 at 22:09:20
Not too long ago a gentleman in the Redding area had high hopes and was in the works (I thought) to get a mural painted in the area. Has anyone heard from him? The mural would be such a wonderful way to remember such a special and remarkable young woman. I hope he is still interested and available to do this wonderful thing for all those that continue to miss Heather each and every day!!
...
USA - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 at 21:32:08
SEVEN MONTHS AGO TOMORROW THE SHASTA COUNTY COMMUNITY WAS HIT HARD WITH NEWS THAT A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMAN WAS MISSING! WE WOULD ALL COME TO KNOW THE MISSING PERSON AS "HEATHER MARIE CARPENTER". HER PARENTS ARE SYDNEY AND ED CARPENTER, SHE HAS A BROTHER CHRIS AND A SISTER HEIDI. ALL WE KNEW IS THAT SHE HAD DONE SOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS ATTENDING AN ALL NIGHT PARTY. THE NEXT MORNING SHE DID NOT SHOW UP FOR WORK, SHE HAD VANISHED. A SHOCKWAVE WENT OUT AS WE LOOKED AT HER PICTURE ON TELEVISION, WHAT A PRETTY GIRL, WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED WE ALL ASK? WELL, UNFORTUNATELY THE FAMILY LOOKING FOR THEIR CHILD, THEIR SISTER, HAVE BEEN GIVEN THE ANSWERS. AS WE LOOK TOWARDS THE FUTURE WE STILL FEEL "THIS SHOULD HAVE NEVER HAPPENED". WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO AS A COMMUNITY TO INSURE THAT IT DOESN'T HAPPEN AGAIN, THAT FAMILIES DON'T HAVE TO LIVE IN FEAR OF SOMEONE SO VIOLENT LIVING IN THEIR TOWN CAUSING ALL THIS HORROR AND PAIN? ARE WE GOING TO TURN AND LOOK THE OTHER WAY? PRETEND IT NEVER HAPPENED? UNFORTUNATELY SOME HAVE DONE JUST THAT AND IT MAKES ME QUESTION "WOULD YOU FEEL THE SAME IF IT WERE YOUR DAUGHTER"? HEATHER MARIE CARPENTER, YOU ARE LOVED, YOUR FRIENDS MISS YOU AND WE HAVE NOT FORGOTTEN!
RELENTLESS
USA - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 at 18:06:33
Sorry this person have been missing.
Thanks,
Jason Gorman
Jason Gorman <jvgorman@cableone.net>
Indep, Ks USA - Monday, March 1, 2004 at 16:00:48
I hope they don't have to take the jury on a field trip. I pray that Patrick will wise up and plead guilty so the Carpenter Family doesn't have to sit through another day listening to the awful things Heather endured because of some sick animal. If Patrick's family has an ounce of compassion, conscience, or understanding they will encourage their son to plead guilty to what he's done and let him suffer the consequences. To the Carpenter Family I pray you will be given strength and endurance to continue on for your beautiful Heather.
Just A Friend
CA USA - Monday, March 1, 2004 at 15:38:19
The last poem I wrote on here was true. I went to the mountain where Heather was found on Saturday. Because of back problems I hadn't gone all the way up there before. I had always believed that Patrick is a maniac and the one responsible for taking Heather. It wasn't until Saturday that I truly realized just what an animal we were dealing with. It would take climbing that mountain for people to realize that he knew exactly what he had done and that he knew exactly where he was going to take her. I hope they take the jury in this case on a field trip to the site so they will know what kind of evil person they are judging. I thank God every day for allowing us to see that justice is done in this. Although what happened to Heather will never be justified, we should take some comfort in knowing that it will not go unpunished. May God be with every one of you. There are many prayers and much love being sent your way.
Concerned
USA - Monday, March 1, 2004 at 04:21:36
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